Q: What chores are appropriate for a four-year-old to start doing on a regular basis?
A: This is a great question because it shows that you realize your four-year-old can—and should—contribute to the family’s upkeep. Too many times, we adults forget that young children, even toddlers, can do chores and help out around the house. Sure, a preschooler isn’t going to cook a four-course meal for us, but there’s lots he or she can do to contribute to the household and learn essential skills to boot.
Chores are as essential to a child as regular sleep and food because it solidifies his place in your home. A child who doesn’t help out around the house on a regular basis can acquire a sort of “guest” mentality. Chores, both daily, weekly and occasionally, ground a child in his proper place in the family.
And four year olds can do a lot! Some suggestions for weekly chores:
- Helping to collect trash
- Sorting/matching socks after laundry
- Changing bathroom towels
- Washing kitchen or bathroom floor with rag/bucket
- Dusting baseboards
Some suggestions for daily chores:
- Setting the table for dinner
- Clearing own dishes after meals
- Picking up/taking care of own toys/things
- Making bed
- Making own breakfast or lunch
Other occasional chores could include picking up sticks, watering plants, weeding gardens, helping with mulch, etc.
For more on how to implement chores and suggestions for how to teach kids how to do chores, I recommend my ebook Chores for Kids ($2.99).
For what every child should learn while living at home, read my article, “The key life skills parents should be teaching their children” in the Washington Post.